Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Monday, March 12, 2012

The whirlwind life...

Teaching is such a whirlwind, to say the least. It seems like I just graduated last week and here it is now, almost spring break. I cannot believe I've been in my own classroom for almost 2 full months now. Crazy.

I'm so thankful to have found a job already that I absolutely love. I get to wake up every morning and do what I'm passionate about. How did I get so blessed, seriously?

My dad and I were talking the other day about choices and be really said something that has stuck with me. Choices, whether good or bad, define your life. I was sitting down today talking with a good friend talking about this same thing. The only person that has control over your life and your happiness is ultimately you. Bad things happen. But it's your choice of your reaction to it that you control. Is it really worth sweating the small stuff? Is it really worth trying to force something that isn't meant to happen and choosing to get upset about it? At the end of the day, life is way too short to spend it uptight and irritated at things you have no control over. You can't go back and change the past and you can't change what other people do and how they act. I've been trying to keep this attitude up lately.





Hope everyone has had a great Monday!

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

I'm back, na na na na na.

Well I'm back!  For good this time, I promise!

What have I been doing since I've been gone, you might ask?

Teaching.  Since student teaching has started, I have devoted basically every ounce of my heart and soul to my 3rd graders, and I have loved every moment of it.  There is truly nothing like going into school everyday and having a class of twenty 8 and 9 year olds to make you feel like a rock star.  I cannot believe that it has flown by, and I'll be graduating in a month and a half!

Working.  In addition to teaching 5 days a week, I also work as a hostess at a nice restaurant here in Charlotte.  I try to work about 3 or 4 shifts a week in order to start saving up my money for after graduation.  While it is exhausting going from school to work, I enjoy being able to do something that gets my mind off school every once in a while. 

Papers.  This whole impact project for student teaching?  Sucks.  I'm so ready to submit the final product next week.  Then I'm officially done with papers for undergrad career.

Having fun.  The new boy in my life has made me incredibly happy.  More about it will come, I promise:).

I've been absolutely loving life lately, even though I feel like it is flying by. 

I would love to fill you all in on the past few months, but there is too much work to be done for tonight!

Saturday, May 7, 2011

There's Gotta be Something more...

What a weekend.  It's Saturday night, and yes I'm chillin' out at home.

I sat down today and really got thinking about how much my life has changed in the past year.  A year ago I moved out of my apartment with my best friend and had a fabulous month to spend with my then-boyfriend doing nothing but taking trips to Savannah, visiting the zoo, and thought I had the rest of my life planned and sorted out. I knew last year exactly where I would be in a year.

Now here I am, home again from school but this time for good, and 100% single.  I can honestly say I haven't been that way in a while, and that I have no idea where I will be in a year, and it's a pretty scary thought.  With graduation only 6 months away, I still have no idea where I will be student teaching, where I'll be living, where I will find a job.

I sometimes sit and just wonder where life will take me.  I know it's all part of God's plan, but not knowing just sucks.. It's been a few of the most life changing and eye opening times in my life. And honestly, I hate it.

I hate not knowing anything.  I've always been the person to plan out every detail of everything, and it's a weird feeling not being able to. It's time for me to let go.

Anyway, enough of my whining.  I've been so thankful these past few weeks to really find out who my real friends are, as cliche as that sounds.  I'm thankful to have some of the best friends I could ask for, who I know will sit and listen to me complain or cry for any extended period of time, and I don't know what I would do without them.


I had a pretty long night last night, so here I am sitting and recovering writing to you all.  But, tomorrow is Mother's Day.  It's always an interesting day, because I don't live with my mom or anywhere near my mom.  I have to split my time in between my step-mom and my mom.  My life without either of them would be drastically different.

I feel like way too often, step-moms get a bad rep.  Why? I don't know.  I've essentially grown up with mine though, since I was 7.  It's crazy to think about how long I've actually known her and all the ways she has influenced my life.  I'd be lost without her!

Now it's time for me to catch up on my reading list which has been neglected for far too long.  Tonight starts Girl with the Dragon Tattoo.  Anyone read it?


Night all!


Quote of the day:
"Your destiny never depends on anyone or anything that leaves your life. Or on a desire that doesn’t end up being fulfilled. Let go of what you wanted."
-Pastor Steven Furtick

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

This year, in a nutshell.

Junior/Senior year of college, in pictures.

 Beta Thetas on bid day! 

Afer homecoming lipsync


80s Bid Day mixer! 

Big Sissy visits for ASU football! 


Hoedown throwdown quad

Halloween goes Jersey

Visit to Florida

Love the Mountains/Cut my hair off! 


Family

Best Mallard Ball date, EVER.
Best roommate ever


Trip to Japan

Barbie debuts


Born in the USA Mixer

Aubree's Bridal Shower

Bridesmaid dress shopping

More Barbie adventures

Aubree's surprise bachelorette party! 

Future BIL!

Siblings at the rehearsal 

Big sissy is married!! 


Saturday Night Fever Mixer



Semiformal

Greek Week! 

Lipsync--1st place!! 

Band Quad



Well, that has essentially been my year.  Hope you've enjoyed! :)

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Uncomplicate.

I was wasting time stumbling today, and stumbled across "100 ways to uncomplicate your life"  Can it really be that easy? 



1. Don’t try to read other people’s minds

2. Get up 30 minutes earlier so that you don’t rush/get a ticket while driving too fast/have to explain why you’re late/get fired

3. Get 8 hours of sleep per night so that you think more clearly

4. Stick to your budget

5. Start saving and investing every week, no matter how little you can spare

6. Balance your checkbook

7. Don’t try to be friends with everyone. Cultivate closer relationships with fewer people.

8. Don’t try to do business with everyone. Identify your target client and take very good care of them.

9. Before getting angry, ask yourself if it will really matter in 20 years

10. Focus on being a good person, not on pleasing others

11. Stay home this Saturday, and finish off that nagging chore that you need to finish

12. Kiss and make up

13. Make a weekly menu, and shop for only those items at the market

14. Ask your grandparents the best way to uncomplicate life, and try it for a month

15. Fill up your gas tank when it’s half full

16. Don’t drink alcohol when you’re tired, sad or mad

17. Pay your bills on time

18. Get an annual physical examination

19. Say “I love you” to your significant other and to your children. Studies show that more marriages last, and fewer kids use drugs, when these words are spoken every day.

20. For just one day, imagine everyone’s intentions are good because most people’s are

21. Give away clothes that haven’t been worn in two years

22. Throw out clothes that are in disrepair, and can’t be mended

23. When you have a conflict with someone, talk it out. Don’t let it turn into more than it is.

24. Know what your priorities are in life, and act as if they are your priorities

25. Tell the truth

26. Don’t cheat

27. Don’t steal

28. If you’re holding on to a ridiculous grudge, let it go

29. Clean your house weekly, so that it doesn’t become too large a chore

30. Do your best at work, or at school

31. Don’t eat when you aren’t hungry

32. Eat when you are hungry

33. Be yourself

34. Say no unapologetically

35. Cook simple meals

36. Don’t try to keep up with the Joneses

37. Pay off your car before buying a new one

38. Organize your desk at the office

39. Change your smoke alarm batteries when the clocks spring forward, and again when they fall back

40. Organize your important paperwork

41. Take only half the clothes that you planned to take with you on holiday

42. Help your children with their homework every night, and have an open dialogue with their teachers

43. Have white sheets and white towels in children’s rooms/bathrooms, because they’re easily bleached

44. Spend your time with nice people

45. Avoid drama

46. Don’t text or talk on the phone while driving

47. Turn off the television/video games/computer; they’re time consumers

48. Don’t engage in office politics

49. Refuse to gossip, or talk behind other people’s backs

50. Do the dishes right after dinner

51. Never go to sleep angry

52. Ask nicely for what you need and want

53. Walk 10,000 steps per day to help your heart

54. Do 20 push-ups before speaking in anger

55. Leave work at work

56. Don’t befriend anyone that isn’t trustworthy

57. Don’t envy others

58. Have your oil changed

59. Take vitamin C BEFORE you catch a cold

60. Don’t work more than 8 hours per day

61. Weed your garden weekly

62. Wash your car weekly

63. Have a spring cleaning month every year, and do one room at a time

64. You don’t need to be best friends with work colleagues, but build respectful partnerships

65. Don’t drink and drive

66. Don’t look for reasons to be angry or sad, look for reasons to be happy. You’ll always be able to find plenty of each.

67. Be friendly with your neighbors

68. Return emails and phone messages promptly

69. Schedule in free time

70. Don’t procrastinate

71. Do what you say you’ll do, when you say you’ll do it

72. Be more flexible when you’re able to be

73. Forgive and forget. End of story.

74. Break the consumerism habit…put a three month moratorium in place on buying anything not deemed a necessity

75. Start your diet on September 1, rather than January 1, so that you won’t also have holiday pounds to lose

76. Take care of any health issues or concerns

77. Have your tires rotated

78. Have your brakes checked

79. Have your eyes checked

80. Don’t let your imagination run away with you

81. Let go of perfection in others

82. Let go of perfection in yourself

83. Don’t try to help those that refuse to help themselves

84. Find a way to reduce your commute to work

85. Have an allotted amount of worry time per day/week, that you strictly abide by

86. Drink more water

87. Eat more salmon

88. Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill

89. Wear your hair in a classic, easy to care for style

90. Finish what you start

91. Wear classic clothes and shoes that never go out of style

92. Create a daily routine

93. Have a 1, 5, 10 and 20 year plan for your financial and life goals

94. Slow down

95. Eat out less often

96. When you ask your husband which outfit looks best, thank him for his answer and wear the one he liked rather than focusing on why he didn’t like the other one

97. Allow your children to grow up

98. Clean out your garage, and donate anything that hasn’t been used in the past year

99. Stretch every day

100. If a relationship is over, let it go
It's definitely time to uncomplicate my life.  Any other suggestions to add to the list?